It's way to easy for someone to maliciously get someone angry and then turn around and use one word from a single message to get a person banned for 6 whole days. Really doesn't seem fair. I pay money for my experience too this guy got me banned for using the B word but im the bully? Adults playing adult games so whats with this baby monitoring garbage. "Well when u get back from vacation say hi" yeah he seems really upset that i used a "bad" word.
1: Calm down, take a deep breath
2: You say you defended yourself, but as you should know, that makes no difference. You should always follow the golden rules: (Mute, Block, Report) if you do that the person sending you abusive messages will get banned and you won’t.
3: If you don't follow the golden rules the following will happen, the person you sent the message to will report you, Microsoft will look at the message history and see what you have said and ban you.
Seriously dude it isn't difficult, don't try and be the "big man" and send abusive messages, no matter whether it’s in defense or not, just block them, mute them and report them.